Silver Lining

While we were in Atlanta we enjoyed visiting with family. Seeing family and friends is the usually the highlight of a family death. Well that is if you get along with your family I guess. The children are especially the silver lining. They carry on as if nothing happened. They provide distraction, entertainment and perspective to it all. We got to visit with Sandy's great nieces and nephews (our step- cousins) who live in Mexico City, Mexico. Ryder loved playing with them.

Tage, Ryder & Alani

Tage & Ryder- Tage is only 2 months older then Ryder.

He is so cute!

We begged Justice to join in the group picture.

Alani carried Ryder around the house like a doll. He is heavy, but she was determined to do it. He loved the attention. When she put him down he would put his hands in air to get back up.

The kids had a great time. Maybe we can visit them in Mexico sometime. Their daddy has a really cool job. He is in charge of all the extras in the movie industry down there. He is currently working on a film for Mel Gibson where they are working with over 12,000 extras. Their mom and other family have been extras themselves in films such as Troy with Brad Pitt.

Sandy's nieces and nephews are all adventurous. They travel all over the world. I am inspired by those that live life to the fullest. I believe children do just that too.

Baby T update

I realize I have been slow to update about the baby. We have been a little side-tracked lately. My energy level and motivations to blog were a little down in the first trimester. At 14 weeks, I am gaining some energy back. I had ongoing nausea throughout weeks 7 to 13. I am glad that is nearing an end!

All doctor appointments have been uneventful up to this point. Blood pressure and tests are all looking good. My weight gain has been minimal at 4 pounds. Lets see if that can last. I felt I would gain more since I ate constantly to keep from getting sick it seemed.

We had our 2nd ultrasound this past week and the baby looked good. The heart rate was 141. So far Kevin & I are thinking girl. I could not tell you why. Well Kevin would tell you I have been more moody this time. I don't think so! Kevin and I will be happy with whatever God gives us. All we pray for is a healthy and happy baby.

I go back to the doc in another week for my monthly check-up. These are usually like 10 minutes long accompanied with 45 minutes of waiting after I leave my pee sample. So fun. Our next ultrasound is at 22 weeks. So we have another 2 months to wait for another peek at baby and gender.

I think that is about all. This whole experience has been surreal for me. I don't recall if it was the same last time. Until the baby gets bigger and gives me a few kicks I will most likely feel this way. I can't wait for kicking to begin!

Stay tuned!

Atlanta Aquarium

While in Atlanta we took a day to get out of the house and visit the worlds largest aquarium. Ryder loved the fish. Some of the exhibits were awesome. The crowds were really bad since it was the weekend. Wish we had a little more time too look at them, but with packed place and toddler that is near impossible. We did not pack a stroller either so we all had to hold Ryder.

Love this pic.

Getting tired.

He is out!

Dearest Sandy

This past week we have been in Atlanta, GA visiting Kevins father and family after losing Kevins step-mother Sandy to a long, and couragous battle against Multiple Myloma. Sandy was diagnosed with this awful blood cancer in approximately 2002. Sandy fought until the end. She was still doing treatments a month before passing.

Sandy was an amazing woman. She had many interests and hobbies. She and Tom actually met in high school in Crystal Lake where they grew up of all places. Sandy was a Delta airline stewardist in the 70's and 80's. This was one of the hottest and most glamorous jobs outside of modeling back then. Sandy attracted friends everywhere she went. It was evident by the number of woman that attended her memorial this past week. They all spoke of her positive energy and beauty. My pictures in this post do not do justice to Sandy's beauty inside or out. I do not have pics from before she was diagnosed. I met Sandy the day before Kevin and I married in 2005. In less than 5 years, I rapidly grew to love and admire her so. Although we lived miles away we cherished each visit and communicated by e-mail, phone and skype. The cancer made travel for Sandy very difficult in the past few years.

In this post I wanted to honor Sandy and pay tribute to her sweet sweet soul.

Sandy loved flowers.

The day I met Sandy 9-22-2005. She immediately won my heart with her smile and charm.

We celebrated Tom's 60th and watched the bears SuperBowl in 2006. Sandy & I are not big sports fans. We felt lucky to have each other during football season.

Sandy loved her red couch. Of course she was never on it until she grew weaker. She always kept busy.

Sandy loved to garden. She spent hours and hours outside with her flowers and plants.

On Lake Lanier in the fall of 2007.

Our Wedding Day.

Sandy was always a blond, but after one of her rounds of chemo it grew in dark.

Sandy sitting in between her sister Denise on left and sister in law Kathy on right along with a couple of Sandys nephews. Sandy loved her sister, nieces and nephew very much. She always talked of them and their adventures.

Ryder 1st day home from hospital. 10-30-2008.

Tom and Sandy flew up the day after to greet their 1st grandbaby.

Sandy wanted Ryder to use the name MiMi

Our last visit with Sandy in July 2009.

Kevin was able to visit in October without us.

Dear Sandy,

I know we did not get to say our last and formal goodbyes before you left. I wanted to let you know we will miss you beyond words. It was odd to be in your house without you all week. Your presence was missed. It will take us all a while to get adjusted to life without you here. I know you are in a much better place where we will meet again someday. I wanted to thank you for all your positive advice and comments over the years. You always made me smile with your compassionate words and wisdom. You gave me so much in the short 5 years we knew one another. You have left a lasting impression on everyone you have met. I am sad my children will not grow up knowing you, but they will know of you for sure. We will make sure to talk of you and show them pictures. Your legacy will pass on. Your friends have been wonderful to us over the past week, as they have in the past years. They shared many wonderful stories about you. Many of your friendships reminded me of mine with all my friends. It was awesome to see part of you in each of them.

Don't you worry about Tom, we will take good care of him. I am sure you will continue to shine your light from up above. I thank God for the time we had. We love you and miss you so.

Love Anneliese, Ryder & Kevin

"Sometimes people come into our lives and quickly go, while others stay a while and leave footprints in our heart...and we are never the same."

1st Haircut

We finally made it to the salon for the 1st haircut!

Overall, he did well. He got a bit antzy when the scissors got close to his ears.

Before

He got to sit in this cute little seat.

His hair turned out so cute, but it looks a little crooked in this pic.

Not the best pic.

He loves his daddy.

We keep looking at him in amazement at how different he looks. I miss playing with all that hair.

What's new???

Not a whole lot has been going on here. Of course Ryder has been busy as usual making messes as fast as he can to move on to make another. He loves to dump his full box of legos over his head and all over the place. He picks a few up and then gets bored and dumps them out again.

Meal times are interesting. We are trying lots of healthy foods, but most do not pass the test.

He has been feeding himself. When he gets tired of using his utensil he throws it and then tries to drink the food out of the bowl.

When all else fails and the toys get old....he cooks.

Ryders BFF "Sonny"

He is also excited to be a BIG BROTHER this September.

Yes, I realize my son looks like a hippie, and the hair is getting too long. It seems like someone has been sick every weekend and we have not made to the barber. Hopefully this week it will happen. He currently has been nursing a cold for a week, and his nose has been running constantly.

We have been enjoying our little 16 month old tot. He is full of personality and makes us laugh daily. We are anxious for spring to turn him loose out in the big backyard with Chubs.